Denial Came First–An Open Adoption Next
When both lines distinctly appeared on the pregnancy test, denial came first. The tears followed. Hot, quick, silent sobs were next. Silent because this was a secret. Fear followed the…
Dear Birth Mom, As My Children Leave, I Love You More
Dear Birth mom, My words are weak. When I think of you, emotions well up inside me. Emotions that have no words. Emotions that are so intensely filled with gratitude and…
We Hear You–You Feel Powerless
We hear our adoptive parents.You feel powerless. You feel the birth mother has all the control. You feel this is a financial drain. You feel confused as to why things…
Can We Guaranteed an Adoption?
"Can you guarantee that this won’t happen again?" asked a family when a mother changed her mind and decided to parent.No.The answer is, “No.”If you have a failed adoption, we…
Expectant Mothers–Not the Time to Make Rash Decisions
We’re adapting. Not downgrading Expectant mothers-- We are here for you. If you are an expectant mother and want to explore adoption as a plan, we may spend more time…
Find the JOY
If I stop worrying, if I enjoy the blossoms, am I not fully recognizing the world’s woes? If I enjoy the breeze, am I not showing empathy to those suffering?…
The Ignored Argument When Discussing Abortion
The subject of abortion is very much a hot button topic in the United States. While there are valid points on both sides of the board, we must concede that all life is precious and worth preserving. (more…)
Australia Legislative Councillor Pushing for Incentives for Adoption over Abortion
In politics, the question over adoption over abortion is rarely, if ever, brought up. Logically, you would think more politicians would push the idea of placing unwanted children with loving, wanting families. But, in the U.S., the issue is too often seen as black and white; either/or with no middle ground. (more…)
Explaining to Your Children That You Placed One of Their Siblings for Adoption
Hello my name is Rebekah. I'm a 39-year-old birth mom to a five-year-old little boy named Tyrus. When I became pregnant with my birth son, it wasn't until I was…
Adding To Your Family After Placing A Child For Adoption
Hello! My name is Rebekah I am 39 years old and I am a birth mom to a sweet five year old little boy. I also have seven other children.…